Thursday, September 4, 2008

Communication = Relationship

As far as I know, I love watching good tv shows. I love it more when there is a relationship focus in the story. Just add the drama, good music and interesting script- it’s sure to grab my attention.

I watched Disney cartoon movies when I was young and it was entertaining.

Maybe cause it was colorful, musical and oh so princessy. But when I saw them again now, I realized I finally understand the story. I never bothered to listen to what the characters were saying back then but now I do. Oh, and I also get the love storyline now. [Cinderella, Snow White and their respective Princes]. I used to wonder why there was always a guy in the story. Lol.

Now, much older and (erm) wiser, I observed more as well -from the hand gestures, body language to facial expressions that actors portray on screen. And I guess it does come down to this:


Communication = Relationship.


I love good sizzling couple chemistry. [Haha].

Like when two best friends who obviously have romantic feelings for each other but wont admit it. And they argue, bicker, and leave us viewers feeling frustrated yet still craving for more of them in the next episode. We know how they are so meant to be if only they could resolve their issues and just say it.

It’s interesting to watch how friendship love can slowly turn into romantic love. Even how love grows as they get to know each other more deeply.

An unexpected gesture like a hug, kiss on the cheek or a surprise gift is sometimes how friendship starts and turns to love. Who knew non-verbal communication can also be sexy and attracting, huh?

But more importantly is when they just get each other in the end. Just click regardless of who they are and what roles they play. It’s often because they have healthy and satisfying communication with one another. And I guess that’s the key to a good relationship.


-Leyla Kamilia-

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